About the lab

A rehearsal space for the hardest part of growing up.

Cohorts of 5–10 children aged 6–16 in Redmond, one facilitator who stays with them through the cycle, and the Hidden Options Method: naming every choice on the table, especially the ones pressure hides.

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Not tutoring

We don't teach subjects. We rehearse the moments between them — the ones that actually shape a childhood.

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Not therapy

No diagnoses, no couches. Kids practice decisions the way athletes practice plays: in reps, with a coach, before game day.

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Not lectures

Every child speaks and role-plays every week. You can't learn to handle pressure by watching someone else handle it.

A Situation Room cohort in discussion around the table with facilitator Natalie DuKane A Situation Room cohort with their facilitator after a session in Redmond, Washington
Natalie DuKane, lead facilitator at The Situation Room
Meet your facilitator

The adult in the room is the whole point.

Natalie DuKane

Lead Facilitator

“Growth happens when people are empowered to trust themselves, embrace possibility, and take the next step forward with confidence. In this room, kids don't get told what to do — they practice deciding, until trusting themselves becomes second nature.”

  • Dual bachelor's degrees in Business Economics & Dance — University of Idaho
  • 10+ years mentoring youth and families through dance education, leadership programs and community initiatives
  • Leadership roles across music, media and entertainment — partnerships, operations, entrepreneurship
  • Life coach blending strategic thinking with mentorship and deep listening
The manifesto

Why a room like this needs to exist.

The hardest moments arrive fast

A friend turns on them. A group pushes them somewhere they don't want to go. Something happens online that can't be taken back. Your child gets a few seconds to decide, and you are not in the room.

Nobody teaches this

School covers math and reading. No one sits a ten-year-old down and works through what to do when the group chat turns on their best friend, or when a teammate dares them to cheat. Children meet adult-sized situations with no rehearsal at all.

Most kids see two doors

Under pressure the choice collapses to doing nothing or making it worse. There are almost always more options on the table — including the ones hiding in plain sight. Seeing them is a skill, and skills can be practiced.

Small cohorts, real reps

Cohorts of 5–10, matched by age track, working through realistic situations every week. No worksheets. No lectures dressed up as games. The practice is the point.

Come see what your child can rehearse.